We have seen several families where father is seen to be the head of the family. Everyone would look at their father with great respect and would obey every single and simple suggestion provided by father with great diligence. Hence, you being a father should be a role model to your children. If you are seen to be roaming around with women leaving their mother alone in the family, then there is a chance that they get a soft corner on their mother though she is not being responsible towards the family. So, if you think you should get due respect from your children, then you should always be alert and should be monitoring your activities so that the male children would not learn from you.
If you move around with women of your age, there is a chance that they would make friendship with girls of their age. You could not even expect the answer that they are likely to give when you question about their weekend gatherings. So, be cautious and choose the chat that is available online so that your body attentions are addressed either by meeting the people whom you are chatting with online. You could also be comfortable in just restricting yourself with the chat without having to go out and meet them.
Since, the website is very safe you do not have to get worried about confidentiality about your account that is created on this chat website. You could manage addressing your needs at home and then be able to take care of children and give them best growing environment so that they do end up struggling the same way you are suffering with. You could teach them the value of relation, emotions and also the importance of keep going in life than stuck with emotions that have no value.